She Says Men Aren’t Listening — Here’s What We’re Missing | Jeanell Greene X Manlihood

Update: 2025-11-21

Description

In this powerful conversation, Josh sits down with Jeanell Greene, Certified Life & Relationship Coach and the “Man Whisperer” herself. Jeanell works with couples all over the world to rebuild trust, restore connection, and understand each other on a deeper level.

In this episode, Jeanell breaks down WHY so many men feel misunderstood, unheard, and emotionally shut down in their relationships — and what women are really trying to communicate.

She also dives into:

Why women think men “aren’t listening”
The emotional wiring differences between men and women
How men can communicate better without feeling weak or exposed
Why vulnerability is actually a man’s superpower, not a liability
What creates safety, trust, and intimacy in a marriage
Why couples get stuck in cycles of hurt — and how to break them
How to rebuild trust quickly (even after major betrayal)

Whether you're dating, married, or trying to heal a struggling relationship… this episode will give you clarity, confidence, and practical tools to lead with strength without losing your heart.

🧠 Key Takeaways

Vulnerability creates connection, not weakness.
Women aren’t asking men to be mind readers—but they often assume men “should know.”
Most conflict comes from different wiring, childhood conditioning, and misunderstandings, not lack of love.
Tone matters more than words when communicating.
Safety + empathy = trust restored.
Praise your spouse often — appreciation is fuel for intimacy.
Healthy marriage habits start with self-awareness and emotional honesty.

🕒 Timestamps

00:00 — Why vulnerability is power
02:00 — Why we brought a woman onto Manlihood
04:30 — The problem with assuming men and women think the same
07:00 — Why men shut down
10:00 — The viral “wire spool existential crisis” story
12:00 — Masculine vs feminine wiring
18:00 — How to rebuild trust after betrayal
25:00 — Why therapy often stays surface-level
30:00 — Why couples think it’s “too late” (and why it’s not)
36:00 — Sex, stress, and the emotional load women carry
44:00 — Foreplay, connection, and real intimacy
48:00 — How to talk safely about sexual expectations
52:00 — Fighting fair & emotional safety
56:00 — What it means to “be a man”
01:01:00 — What 10-year-old Janelle needed to hear
01:04:00 — Her final message to men